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In need of my adventure

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Plgrm43, Aug 19, 2009.

  1. Plgrm43

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    Hey guys - to warn you this is a same ole story and I feel silly asking for advice but ya'll are the best! And I know you can help me out!

    I am a 22 year old gay guy, but I've never been with a guy! Without giving you my story, I realized I was gay when I was 20. So I consider myself a late bloomer (I'm sure there are many men that contradict this perception). ANYWAY, I need to meet guys! And I have nowhere to go! I live about 40 minutes from a big city, but I am in a small town going to college and have no gay friends or good girlfriends that could help me out! Mind you this small town has a small school that I'm going too which is very religious so most of the people you meet here are very uncomfortable about anything gay. It's weird. I wish you could see it.

    I am not out to anyone but my close friends so I just don't know what to do. I feel like a scared little girl because I don't know anyone or any good places to go or what to do and I am always crushing on my hot guy friends.

    Maybe I'm just venting but I could use some advice. Thanks everyone!

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  2. littledinosaurs

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    Look for LGBT groups in the surrounding towns
    Check out to see if there is a PFLAG near by?
    Otherwise you might have to go those 40 mins to the city