i'm just annoyed, there is this mate, well i regard him as a mate, he is in my tutor, doesn't talk to many ppl there, i make an effort to talk to him, he is in most of my lessons, and thing is he is a really nice guy, but he's bin ignoring me on facebook and msn throughout the whole holiday, so i call him on it and he basically says we have little in common and he can't be arsed, and so i just give up, i have so many good amazing friends, but because he is in my tutor, and most lessons, i made an effort, i even bought him chocolates on his bday, though he got me nothing, and i thing is on occasion we have gotten on really well, but then other times it just seems like i make all the effort, and do all the talking, for nothing!!!!Why are some people just so annoying????Anyway rant over, sorry i usually save these for my best friend, but he has stopped texting, so i think he may have fallen asleep lol
He doesn't want to associate with you and probably thinks you're pathetic. He hopes you get the message without saying it.
not to be so blunt, but i think that Jack2009 is right. so ignore him and if hes an ass, hes an ass so don't waste your time
That is pretty cruel... but there doesn't seem to be much good coming your way in this exchange... maybe it's his way of distancing from you after all he's your tutor, and there's a difference between the employer and the employee.
I have a very close friend, whom he did studied with me for years, from Grade 8, until to the Grade 11, and then he went to college and then went to my college for a year. Unfortunately, he flunked almost all the subjects in my college and moved college, and not much things I could contact him afterwards. Even in the facebook, I got no replies, and in MSN, he was often offline. Probably he is busy with his girl, or something else. :roflmao:
People can be very anti-social! I just say "Have fun being by yourself " then walk off no. No Worries Mate!
And that's it right there. He's your tutor, but you recognize him as your mate. It can be hard sometimes to see people in the roles they hold and not idealize them into other roles. Clearly he wants to keep his relationship with you professional. He's done his best to make that clear without being blunt, but you aren't taking the hint. I'd say you're best off finding other friends and keeping the relationship with him on a professional level.
to the people saying he's his tutor, I don't think that's what TS means - in the UK a lot of places call registration tutor group or just tutor. also, ditch him, he seems like a douche.
Oops! My bad, I misread "he is IN my tutor" to "he IS my tutor." That changes things slightly. I would still say that he doesn't seem interested in you, so I'd just take it at that and find someone that shows some reciprocation
