Anyone ever had someone flirt with them weirdly? Well this older guy, whom I was bagging groceries for (work there for 2 weeks so far) was saying this. "You been working really haarrrd. I wonder if you can take my groceries to the car with your strong arms." then he tip me $200. The cashier didn't noticed how much it was, and I didn't either until I looked at it again, but I didn't say anything about it. He was just staring at me, and I felt awkward. I don't think I come across that gay, for that to happened, and the cashier wasn't ugly. But he ignored him completely when he said hi. Then some old woman was talking about my name and how sexy it was, and then she said I look younger than I did (I'm 17, and I don't look younger, or never thought I did). But she thought I was 15.
Yeah .... I was 12 or 13, and I went to Taiwan for vacation. When they say girls like ppl from other countries, they mean they like ppl from other countries ... ... srsly, they crowd around you like moths around a flame and you know puppy eyes, yeah... they use them on you. uhh I can speak Chinese and I look Asian, imagine if I were of another race o.o ... ... I would have been eaten up by now had I not been a little... uhm what`s that word... oh.. what do you call it, homosexual.
Creepy.....once I was at the gym and this 50 year old guy hit on me. He had his eyes on me the whole time and then finally came up to be and said "oh boy, you can really stretch"...eek - I was so freaked out that I ran outta the gym lol.
I may be able to top these. I once had a guy hitting on me non-stop at a gay bar. He repeatedly bought me drinks (none of which I touched). He kept touching me (usually inappropriately). When I went on the dance floor, he kept grinding up against me. So what's the problem? This guy had a boyfriend. Who happened to be my ex-boyfriend. Who was standing there the entire time. Lex
I have personally observed some really creepy things like this, and have been told many, many stories by friends. One of my friends had to make a formal complaint at his gym about a guy that kept hitting on him (and not subtlely, either). Another was repeatedly propositioned for sex and offered large sums of money to do so by a guy who didn't seem to want to take no for an answer. There's nothing wrong with taking a $200 gift from some older guy, as long as you are comfortable with it. The issue is, of course, he probably thinks that the $200 just bought him the right to stare at you and probably fantasize all sorts of things, and personally, I find that rather creepy, but if that's all it amounts to, and you're OK with it, probably not a bad tradeoff for you. I'll admit it's possible that the guy is just mega wealthy and genuinely likes to help out young guys, but from what you're describing, it doesn't sound like that. Oh and even if you don't come across really gay, people with good "gaydar" can almost always tell, even if straight folks can't
