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Gay or Bi ?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by RainInAfrica, Sep 5, 2009.

  1. RainInAfrica

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    So yeah em I'm trying to figure this out ( yes I actually care now :O ) So I'm pretty sure I'm gay, But there's a fatal flaw in that thought, I currently have a girlfriend, Who I am attracted to ( not as much as I'm attracted to guys :frowning2: ) So I don't know. I don't think I'm bi because I don't really find girls sexually attractive :confused:
    :help:
     
  2. werekid

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    maybe you should your gf and maybe you 2 can still be friends
     
  3. olides84

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    Well, if you don't find girls sexually attractive, then I guess that would include your girlfriend too. So, would you agree that it'll never really go any further and in reality she's just a very good friend who is a girl? And/or do you want to meet and have a relationship with a boy? If so, maybe you should start thinking about breaking up - finding a boyfriend while having a girlfriend is a no-no.
     
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    Do you fine your girlfriend sexually attractive?
    Would you rather have a boyfriend than your current Girlfriend?
    Could you see yourself ending up with a girl in the end?
    Answering those questions might help you figure it out.
     
  5. RainInAfrica

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    Thats the thing... Maybe I don't want to anwser them because in the back of my mind I already know :icon_sad:
     
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    If you don't like her, don't date her....If you don't think it will go any farther, then don't take it any farther.