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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by who am I, Aug 2, 2007.

  1. who am I

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    Is it right or wrong to date a member of your family.

    I really like my aunty but I dont know what to do about it any advice would be appriciated.
     
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    Is she a direct member? you know, by blood? if so, then it's wrong. yet, it's up to you and your aunt. love is very strange....
     
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    Shes my mams sister and straight but divorced with 2 kids:icon_sad: :bang:
     
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    oh, well, try to get over it. find someone who you acctually have a chance of being with. It's a very difficult path, i experienced something like that...anyways, like i said, try to find someone who you can be with. even though it'll hurt, probably. from my experience, I'd say you're going to have a hard time. but you'll eventually make it through...
     
  5. Psych!

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    If she's a direct family memeber then yes, that would be classified as incest.
     
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    Check the legal situation where you are, as it does vary at the cousin/aunt/uncle level.

    If it's illegal then you know where you stand. Don't go there, as it will cause problems for you both.

    If it is legal then it depends on how much of a problem it will be within the family (many of who may still look down on it despite the legal position). I am assuming she is somewhat older than you. Does she feel the same as you?
     
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    Most places the closest relative you can legally date/marry is your second cousin.

    I don't know that's wrong per se, but...a little strange. I personally couldn't do it. I mean, my niece is hot. If she wasn't my niece, I'd probably want to date her. But we're close like sisters. And I just couldn't.
     
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    Legal or not.......it's just better not to go there. She is your mom's sister. Imagine how your mom would feel knowing about this. This would ruin her relationship with her sister and her relationship with you.
     
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    That's incest. Don't date her.