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I'm an idiot

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Rygirl, Sep 23, 2009.

  1. Rygirl

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    Why oh why do I open my mouth without first engaging my brain?!?!?!?!? My self inflicted dilema is this,
    In the girls common room somehow the subject went onto gay girls (as you do), and I catagorically denied that I was gay. WHAT DO I DO NOW? If I get outed, (and they only have to look at my 'interested in' facebook status) then all my new friends will know I lied, and I hate lying to my friends.

    Help, what do I do now? :tears::tears::tears:
     
  2. Revan

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    Simple, go to your friends, explain the reason you said no was because you weren't ready to come out to so many people. If they are your friends, they'll understand.
     
  3. Jay D

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    Simple 'nuff, tell them that you're lesbian (not gay, you aren't a bloke dear) and that you didn't want everyone to know. It's a fair cop to be honest.
     
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    I think you'll find most girls here prefer to be called gay girl rather than lesbian, its a gaydar thing.
     
  5. Jay D

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    oh .... ok. Just tell em the truth tho.
     
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    I agree with everyone else. But honestly you're more bold than me if you put "interested in" truthfully in facebook. I just left it off...