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Time is all it will take, hopefully.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by JoeG, Sep 25, 2009.

  1. JoeG

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    Hye,
    things could be worse.
    lets be fair. but for all thoses who are petrified about peeps, finding out and wot not, jsu be chilled. I am out to my best friend, when was 16, that was hard, but i moved on. I wanted advice and he was ther.
    Since then things have been a rollercoster. in the sense of tellin peeps (aka People).
    Yh it's ahrd. there are ways to do it, thou. Text if u trust, msn, slipp it in a convo, or face to face if they are close. even then u gotta make suer it ' runs smoothly. 'I have something to say, but , well, y i dunno wot ull say?@ works 'or oh yh, um well, i wasn'rt gonna say but i trust u not to tell...' or wot ever, be subtle and be calm.

    I myself have used all of the methods myself, i won't advise email thou. They can be to easliy Forwarded, intercepted, read over somes ones shouder, and bla blah blah.

    I gotta say when u have told peeps a few times tho, i does be come easier, cos u tend to tell the closest 1st and work backward. ive told many peeps, now and the thing u gotta remember, is that if they truly are ur friends they willl respect ur trust and be mature about it. u jus gotta remember, u are who u are. and love that.


    hope this helps, if not let me, no.
    Joexxx :slight_smile: