Okay there's this guy at school, he's cute'ish (not really hot, but cute), and I think he's gay, but he's not really giving gay vibes. He's an artist, but his drawings are rather feminine like purple elephants flying, and lots of pinks and yellows. I would never dare do such artwork .... plus it's too fluffy. Also he's fashionable, his clothes match, and they are a certain way, so it's like he takes his time in what he is buying (for example his shirt was a bright yellow with birds flying, and a ton of his clothing has birds; one girl notice it out). His hair is shaggy too. And his best friend is some obese girl, his "fag" hag possibly, since he was doing patty cakes with her. But when he speaks, I don't feel like he's gay.... and if it wasn't for all those other hints I would think he's straight. I guess I depend a lot on the voice. ------ I want to give him hints, without asking him out, since I think if he is gay he is in the closet... And I am inside the closet. So I want to attract him, and if he's attracted to me then he will show it. But I think he kind of notices me, but I don't know.
*Barfs* Well, so that this post doesn't look like mere trolling here are my two cents: why don't you try talking to him in a friendly manner so that you get to know him better? Then you'll probably have a better idea of what he's like and where he stands on the Kinsey scale. Try to build a friendship and then see what develops from there.
I am not kidding... it was purple elephant with wings, flying in the bright purplish/magenta/yellowish golden clouds. He was shy about it, but he wanted to show it to everyone. Well I'll mention Megan Fox, that will do it... or some other alternative hot girl. But I don't want to come across vulgar like "Hey do you think Megan Fox is hot!!??", since he's kind of mature. I don't know. I use her sometimes just as normal conversation, and I have a radar when I hear her name spoken. He's in my art club (once a week), and the only way I think I am going to spend time with him is by going on this field trip he even told me, "You should go".
Yeah, go to the field trip. I think, that if you get to know him better at friendly level it might reveal itself Good luck
Please Please Please don't use Megan Fox as your "If He's straight he'll think she's hot" card, because not everyone thinks she's hot believe it or not. I'm bi and I don't think she's hot at all. I think you'd be able to think of easier and surer ways of knowing if he's straight or not.
Again =/ Trying to tell if a person is not straight based on stereotypes will fail. Especially with music. For example, me.
Yeah, you're right. One of my very straight friends likes It's Raining Men too, sounds quite funny when he sings: "It's raining men, hallelujah" like he's very oblivious of the lyrics :lol: