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Should I?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by WaterGuy121, Oct 23, 2009.

  1. WaterGuy121

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    Do u ppl think i should come out to more people. I came out, to a few of my best friends, but I still feel like i wanna let other people know. But, then again, i think, maybe not...most of the ppl who live around here are homophobic.

    So, what do u ppl think, try to come out to more ppl or not?
     
  2. Not our decision to make.

    If it feels right, have at it. If you're having second thoughts, just wait.

    I'm in full support of whatever you decide to do. :thumbsup: Good luck.
     
  3. Mirko

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    Hi there! It is really up to you as to whether you want to come out further. Do you have other friends that you can trust to whom you could come out knowing that they would be accepting and supportive? That said, knowing that 'most people who live around' you are homophobic or might not be as supportive, I would take it slow.

    If you feel that you want to be more yourself, maybe try finding a LGBT youth group or hangout spot where you can hang out with others and be just yourself. Do you know if there would be such a group in your area hat you could join?
     
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    nope, i dont think i have any other friends that i might be able to trust about that.

    and nope, dont think theres a LGBT youth group around here

    maybe, i wont come out to alot of ppl yet, i'll wait a while.
     
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    Why does EVERYONE have to know what you like in bed?

    I never understood that... I say be yourself, and if sexuality comes up you can talk like everyone knows you're gay as common knowledge.