K, so I guess I'm pretty easy to get into a relationship and I just need some reassurance and maybe some advice on controlling myself from getting into stupid relationships. Well to start things off, yesterday I got into a relationship with someone who has "loved me" and I have loved back. The plan was for me to move out there next semester (This was thought of before we got together). Then a little later that evening, I find out someone I had dated a long time ago and still talked to me (Who I thought was a 17 year old boy) was actually a fake. Turned out he is some 26 year old man who did it because he was bored, for 2 whole years+. So, when I was 16, I was being invited for phone sex and cam sex by someone who wasn't even who he said he was. =/ Then later that night, my boy starts going wacko saying I hate him and that he is dumb and all that shit, and then I continuously tell him he's wrong and that I love him. That carries on for awhile, and then I just get tired of it and tell him I'm going to bed and that I'll text him in the morning. And he's like "No, I'll text you. Peace." So I text him this morning, and he pretends to be his sister saying that he died =/ Interesting way to end a relationship, eh? Other relationships I've been in, I was too passive and got used a lot. I thought the only way to keep them happy was to get them what they wanted. Then they dump me, guess I was wrong. :eusa_doh:
the best thing to do in a relationship is be you! you cant be what everyone else wants, because then you wont be truly happy, i would say make a vow to not date for a while and just get back to you.
