Okay remember the old guy who is rich, today he mentions he wants our relationship to be like a daddy/son kind of thing. I'm thinking some kinky stuff. Is this what I think it is? Or it just some psychological roleplaying. (and he couldn't even pass as my dad, maybe grandpa) I'm thinking I'm going to drop him just because he's creepy.
yeah, i haven't meet him yet just internet stuff, so it isn't "real" yet i'm going to drop him after that comment... because i was looking for something more normal lol. I need to go out more.
Going out more is good =] School makes me do it every day... However, it doesn't mean I'll ever meet someone new. -.-
^^ well I should suspect this though, but age isn't a huge deal to me but I knew he was a lot older who wanted to buy me stuff
Your decision is clear. Leave him. As for the dad/son thing, it's basically he's wanting to consider you a son roleplaying wise. So when you guys have sex you can moan things like "Daddy please [insert derogatory term here] me" like that......
It's a common fantasy. I don't have it, but i know it is very common. [edit] but i also would recommend against doing anything further with this guy
Excuse my ignorance, but can anyone explain it in details that exactly what is being happened? I'm at a loss, so I'll appreciate it if people can fill it out for me.
Np Warrior. Jack here had been asked by an older man to have a relationship with him. He was I believe also planning to take Jack to Paris with him....which I believe was like suppose to happen last week (what happened to that Jack?) You can read it here: http://www.emptyclosets.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28525 And I really really hope I'm okay for posting a link to another EC thread....I don't think there is anything that says I can't since it's another Empty Closets thread...
I know of a lot of younger guys who have gotten sucked into these sorts of relationships. The older guys don't always directly talk about the "daddy-son" aspect, but the dynamic is almost always there whether spoken or not. Very, very rarely are these relationships healthy. They are almost always codependent because the older guy is paying for everything and making most of the decisions; often he gets off on the dependency factor. This, in turn, can negatively impact the emotional growth and well-being of the younger person, who, at a critical point in life, instead of learning to be independent, self-sufficient, and self-confident, is instead learning to continue the dependency patterns more typical of a young teenager. For a whole variety of reasons, this is a really bad idea.
Well, as you now found out, there's no such thing as a free lunch! there's always going to be something you need to do, and if you aren't willing to pay it, it's best to back out early on. So yeah, not really the position you want to be in, so I would recommend backing out and forgetting about the matter...
