1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

How can a guy have such an effect?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by ANightDude, Nov 8, 2009.

  1. ANightDude

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 10, 2008
    Messages:
    1,151
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Santa Fe, New Mexico
    A while ago I posted for some help regarding a guy I was "talking" to on here, well, that ended. We are no longer talking, but we are still best friends, and nothing seems really awkward between us. I figured our feelings "romantic-wise" were over, and we could just be great friends again.

    But lately, I've been confused. I feel that I may like him, but at the same time, I don't think I do. I remember all the times we've been together and the memories we have from when we were romantic, and I really miss that him that way, and I start to feel like I do. But then, I don't know, at the same I feel like I don't like him at all like that.
    I'm so lost here, and I don't know what to do. :/
     
  2. x2x2x2x2y2

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Oct 15, 2009
    Messages:
    2,326
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Wonderland (and California, USA)
    I see two paths. The first: stay friends and hope eventually you stop thinking about those romantic memories so much. Or path two: cut the friendship. It's hard for Ex's to be friends sometimes. I personally would go with path two, but it's really up to you.