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Porn star that's also a masseur...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by losecontrol2, Nov 12, 2009.

  1. losecontrol2

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    I thought he was familiar when I saw his video, so I looked him up and I see it's pretty easy to contact him. He's a masseur.

    Not that I'm gonna be all stalker-ish, but I think it'd be good for me. I don't plan on initiating anything else but even that would be exciting enough for this dull phase.

    Would that be too crazy?
     
  2. biisme

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    You want to set up an appointment with a masseur, because he works in the adult film industry? And, you're not going to initiate anything...but...you want something to happen? What exactly would you be looking for if you went?

    I think if you're looking for anything besides a massage....that it might be a little unrealistic.
     
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    I concur. He's a masseur, and as such is a professional. Even if you flat out said "f**k me" he wouldn't because being a professional it would breach masseur-patient confidentiality. He could do it outside of the massage but even then he might not because you're still his patient.
     
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    but you can fantasize i guess....lol
     
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    Remember just because he is a porn star that doesn't mean he is constantly horny and willing to have sex with anyone. It may just be a job to him. A way to earn some cash doing something enjoyable. So while going to get a massage from him may be good to fantasize about later don't get your hopes up about something happening.
     
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    youve got less chance with a porn star they arent sluts they got standards of what they shag it has to be plastic perfect >.> and dont try offering to pay you just cant afford it and any semi smart porn person wouldent risk catching anything off you

    as for get a massage thats great but go to so,meone whos good and not just cos they also well ya know
     
  7. Chip

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    Actually a significant percentage (but not a majority) of porn stars do "escort" work, which is sometimes thinly veiled as "massage." I take offense to this, as I am a massage therapist, and as Revan46 said, those of us who are professionals do not mix sex with bodywork. In fact, bodyworkers who hold national certification are prohibited by ethics rules from *ever* engaging in a sexual relationship with someone who is or has been a client.

    Now, all that said, if you want a "sexual" massage (which, by the way, is likely to be a crappy massage, as most escorts are not professionally trained bodyworkers), there are plenty of places to find that. But honestly, if you have a really topnotch massage by a good, professionally trained and nationally certified therapist, I think you'll find the value and enjoyment of that to be much, much greater than quickie sex with some porn star. :slight_smile:
     
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    Seconding what Chip said....

    Most states in the US have started licensing massage therapists because too many "massage parlors" were just fronts for prostitution. To get a license, you have to attend training (which costs between $5-10K) and take continuing education. And in many states, you have to provide your license number on advertisements.

    If it is your fantasy to get a massage from a hot porn model, then call him and ask about his training and the types of massage therapies he uses. If he can't answer your questions, then he's not a massage therapist, he's a prostitute who gives massages.

    If you're interested in an "erotic massage" (I see that you're over 18) and you are interested in this particular person, then understand- as Chip said- that what you're paying for is not a real massage. And also understand that he will ask you to pay a certain fee for the massage but that you're expected to pay additional "tips" for other services you receive after the massage.

    I would recommend Chip's advice and hire a trained/licensed massage therapist and get a professional massage.