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Nothing. DARN IT!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by mydogstewie, Dec 2, 2009.

  1. mydogstewie

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    Okay, so this girl I'm dating, she told me she liked me and when she did, I said I liked her too, because I did.

    So I asked her out and we're now dating. The problem is that I don't feel anything! No spark, no nothing. I thought I liked her but...It's not there now...

    What's up with that? :confused:
     
  2. Andromeda

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    Then tell her.
     
  3. RaeofLite

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    Maybe she's cute but sometimes even if you're attracted to girls there's not a spark with every single one... *shrug* Just tell her. The sooner the better.

    Maybe something like: "Sorry, I thought we had a spark there for a moment but you seem like a cool gal. Friends?" (before things get serious)
     
  4. beckyg

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    Yeah, sounds like its time to be truthful with her. You don't want to carry on in this relationship if you don't feel anything. Maybe she is better a friend.