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Dump me because I'm uncut

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Andromeda, Dec 18, 2009.

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  1. Andromeda

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    the guy ask me if I was cut and I said no then he dump me

    Is that common?
     
    #1 Andromeda, Dec 18, 2009
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    Odd, Same happened to me once (not exactly the same but similar)
    Some people say its hygienically safer and all that crap ? Maybe thats his excuse, or maybe he's just a dick ?
     
    #2 RainInAfrica, Dec 18, 2009
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    I don't think that's common really to dump someone for that..... But don't worry. He's an asshole and you deserve someone better. If he's going to dump you for such a stupid reason.
     
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    +1 (&&&)
     
    #4 RainInAfrica, Dec 18, 2009
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    Weird, what happened to my text? All the words are capital now...
     
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    OMFG ghosts
     
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    +2 :eusa_danc
     
    #7 mattypants, Dec 18, 2009
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    + 3 (!!)
     
    #8 Pepsi, Dec 18, 2009
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    I personally try to date cut guys only because A: I'm cut myself, B: I don't like the extra foreskin, and C: It is hygienically and medically healthier for you. It's a lot less of a risk of contracting diseases related to cleanliness. They even say it's safer for guys to be cut when it comes to the HIV issue.

    But the guy is still an effing jerk.
     
    #9 Revan, Dec 18, 2009
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    Thats a dick move... I got to agree with Revan46 though, same on every reason. I don;t mind it, like my fwb is uncut, but sometimes it can be turn off. I mean foreskin is funny, but not something you dump a guy over...
     
    #10 iwanttobelieve, Dec 18, 2009
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    I'd never dump someone for that. Sorry he felt that way.

    Personally I think they're fascinating.

    (*hug*)
     
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    Honestly...who cares? It's a flap of skin. I find it incredibly shallow to judge someone for something that is, honestly 1% of the entire body.
     
    #12 Gaetan, Dec 18, 2009
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    Agreed. You're better off without the guy if he's going to be that shallow.
     
    #13 mmilam75, Dec 18, 2009
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    It's unfortunately not uncommon at all for people to be assholes, no.
     
    #14 Schu, Dec 18, 2009
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    I think Rain did that XD

    And I agree wholeheartedly.
     
    #15 Tim, Dec 18, 2009
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    Bad word choice there, buddy. xD

    But yeah, dude isn't worth it anyway if he's judging you for a piece of skin or lack of it on your penis, so don't worry too much. (*hug*)
     
    #16 Shevanel, Dec 18, 2009
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    It is not common at all! Honestly, what person dumps someone because they are cut or not? If that is his reaction, then I say that you are much better off without him!
     
    #17 KittyBoy, Dec 18, 2009
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    duno bout dick but he was an ass cut or uncut is really not somthign i have ever thought abotu i dont lay awake thinking ofa guy going hmm is he cut or uncut like my feelings would suddenly dissapear over it likeWTF! come on.

    the guys a joke and will eb ver lonley beeing the way he is you deserve better (*hug*)
     
    #18 Just Adam, Dec 18, 2009
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    I totally agree with everyone else here. You're better off that you didn't have to waste any of your time with this guy.
     
    #19 Kevin42, Dec 18, 2009
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    ... shallow guy huh?
     
    #20 stratavos, Dec 18, 2009
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