i was wondering: should dependency on the other person...or perhaps "clinginess" ratios should be of any concern in a couple's compatibility? supposing everything else seems to be going well; just one of the couple isn't willing to be quite as dedicated, time-wise?
I had this exact problem. But its been 3 months.and we are fine. He doesn't seem to put as much in time wise. But after a while you don't need as much time and it doesn't really matter. Just stick it out for a bit and it'll be fine
i dunno if its an issue or not personally i would like my partner to not be clingy as such but to want to be with me and do things with merlike if somthing comes up i would like to be the first choice aslong as they dont forget their friends as i know how it feels to be on teh back end of that.. one thing i remember about relationships...more people are in a relationship than jsut the two people...you have friends and family aswell who have emotional investments in them.... i know of people who dont liek clingy partners and their partners like to be atentive s it were...but teh fact is if you love someoen you jsut have to adapt its all about comprimise.
