Its been 3 weeks, and I'm still not over my now ex-girlfriend. I don't know what to realy do anymore, I shouldn't take it so hard, last time we broke up she left me for a guy. This time I just couldn't handle her, and i messed up. now she hates me and I can't hang out with my friend cause shes with them, and I can't be around her. I don't know what to do, it feels like I'm going to cry... I just don't know what to do??
Hi there and welcome to EC! I'm sorry that this happened to you and that you feel that you don't have that many options. (*hug*) If you feel that you need to let it all out, do that. Take a couple of days to let it all out and after that try to begin the process of moving on. There are things you can do to help you in getting over her. Although you feel you can't hang out with your friend anymore because your ex-girl friend is around, maybe ask you friend is she would be willing to meet you without her. Maybe just call her and meet her at a coffee shop or ask her if she would like to grab a bit to eat with you. The other thing you could do is trying to make some new friends or maybe even try to pursue something new, like a new hobby. Are you part of an LGBT group? If not, and if there is a support group, maybe try joining one at school or in your community. Maybe try joining some activities at school or in your community as well. New things in our life can help with keeping the mind distracted and focused on other things for a while, which will help you in moving on. Just wondering a bit, why do you feel that you have messed up? Maybe this particular feeling is preventing you from beginning the process of moving on. It is possible that you didn't mess up. Hope this helps a bit!
I have taken a copule of days, (Under my bed not coming out for hours at a time) One of my friends already meets me on the side, but my ex might of start the "Why do you go off to hang with her??" She gets ticked off when anyone goes or talks to me who she say ARE her friends. Not that I know of in my community that I can do. All school things I did was with her adn well I can't really go to them. I am not part of any GLBT group cause I don't really know abotu any. I stopped the things i did before...I can't do anything really. I try to hang out with new people but then she just stares at me.. when I'm with new people. The way I messed up was by being who i am....... I have some problems that i have trouble putting up with.. I spent alot of time having to talk to people... So she says i wasn't there for her, all the time or i'm a handful I was my self I was who i am thats how i messed up......
why do i get the feeling she is jealous if she questions who you talk to? also she clearly aint whant you need. id look for someone that actually can understand how you are.
Shes not that type not that i know of...... she tells me i don't know what i need....... theres no one who understands how i am.... I don't even understand who i am......
