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does it sound like he likes me back?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by diegon3, Jan 14, 2010.

  1. diegon3

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    Ok so the guy I like (who i know is gay... i'm not sure if he knows i am too) has become a really good friend over the 6 months that i've known him. Before our college classes started we would play video games and hang out all day practically everyday. But just recently he txted me saying if i wanted to go see the movie nine, he said he also invited some of the ppl we hang out with as a group who weren't able to go. and one of them saw me through the window of their dorm when i was going to meet him didn't seem to know about the movie... and just a the other day he txted me asking if we could play video games again cause we have not done so in a long time and from what it seemed it didn't include that group of friends again... Now i feel as if i should tell him about my crush on him when i get to talk to him alone in person the next time i see him .... does it seem like a good idea? [the upside if he says he doesn't like me at least i'll be able to move on so no need to repeat that piece of advice]
     
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    well he cartainly seems interested in you. and not wanting to have a group of friends around is a plus, he wants to spend more time with just you. i'd go for it, good luck :slight_smile:
     
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    yeah totally go for it, he probably is into you a little bit, keep us posted
     
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    sorry he's at least into you a little bit not he's interested a little bit my bad :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Oh and Good Luck!
     
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    >>>who i know is gay... i'm not sure if he knows i am too...

    Rectify this.

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    Yeah, I agree with Lex...come out to him before you go any further. Go from there.
     
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    i agree with others. he wants you.
     
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    Sigh - it's like a soapie... And I'm a sucker for love, so I'm hooked. Keep us posted - and yeah you should come out to him first. Talk about that first before you move onto uh... bigger things.
     
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    yeah, I am going with Lex on this too. Have a chat with him and tell him you are gay. If he's into you... i am willing to bet it will be pretty obvious. If not, you have a gay friend to talk about guys with. INVALUABLE!!!
     
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    nothing venture nothing gained....go for it.
     
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    You should definately come out to him, he seems into you.
    Go for it!
     
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    well it seems that tomorrow were playing video games just the two of us and I will tell him then (crosses fingers) wish me luck!!!