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just gotta vent a bit

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by x2x2x2x2y2, Feb 19, 2010.

  1. x2x2x2x2y2

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    My sis texted me a little while ago. This is how the convo went:


    Her: What are you doing?

    Me: Nothing, why?

    Her: Where is mom?

    Me: WTF? Why r u gonna text me asking about mom? if you wanna know, text her.

    Her: I did but she didnt text me back

    Me: Shes in her room. Probably asleep by now.

    Her: Oh ok. Talk to you tomorrow


    Im just mad cuz i feel that she should text me and wanna talk to me. And being honest, i got a weird feeling that i shouldve told her i was gay when i saw her first text. im glad i didnt. what a bitch.
     
  2. starbucksshoote

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    I think you are seriously over-reacting.
     
  3. Halpert

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    I know how much of a let down it is when people text you to ask a question and not talk. But, next time it happens, if you want to talk, keep the conversation going! If you feel you should tell her, the time will come.
     
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    Unless there is some 'previous' between you guys then I have to agree with starbucksshoote that you are overreacting. Its an innocuous question.
     
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    I didn't want to be the first to say it...
     
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    O.e

    just wanna complain about anything eh?
     
  7. x2x2x2x2y2

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    Lmao yeah I know I was over reacting. I think I was just on edge when it happened. Plus I wasn't in a good mood.
     
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    Well hopefully you're in a better mood now! :icon_bigg
     
  9. Austin

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    ...Am I not supposed to do thattttt? D: I ask my brothers (well not through text) where my parents are sometimes without calling them first...
     
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    I was thinking about how this part was going to go...

    Her: What are you doing?

    Me: I'm being gay, why?

    Her: uhhh......
     
  11. Z3ni

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    ... Isn't that normal between siblings?

    And she was probably worried about your mum.
     
  12. x2x2x2x2y2

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    I doubt she was worried because it happens a lot.

    And I wasn't planning on telling her in my first reply. Lol I meant that it felt like the first text was a sign to tell her sometime in the convo.

    And yeah it's normal but I'm just mad that her first text made it sound like she was actually interested in something about me. If she's texting to ask a question, then that should be her first text. I don't want her to pretend that she's texting me to know about me. Get what I'm saying??? Lol

    oh and yes I'm in an awesome mood now!! =P