OK... So, I've been best friends with, well, my best friend for 9 years. We have the relationship were we can finish each other's sentences, and have the same sense of humor and everything. But, to help me, you have to know abour him tho right? Well, first of all, I know his opinion of gays. He's a person of strong conviction who thinks that we are all entitled to our rights like anyone else, he even has a lesbian relative. He does see me as his best friend as well, for instance, he once asked me to compare penis' to see if mine had distinct characteristics like his, it was certainly for a medical reason tho, nothing more. Some of you may find this appauling, but I've had the most unrelenting attraction to him since my 7th grade year, and I have more than attempted to watch him masterbate through a thin blanket while pretending to sleep. He's asked me on several occasions whether I'm gay or not, and i have obviously always said no, but...this is my problem. I couldn't stand the idea of me coming out to him, and it ruining our friendship. He often times seems very bi-ish...but I've searched his comp since i've felt this attraction, and I only find lesbian porn on his comp...so I'm almost completely convinced he's straight...anyone got any help for me?:bang:
Ahh, sounds infinetely easier than it really is. I guess I just really wanted a relationship lol. Thanks for the reply tho, I actually didn't think I got to post this.
It's definitely not appalling Yeah, he might be 'straight but accepting' or 'bi-curious'. You guys have known each other for 9 years, and if he is accepting of homosexuals, I don't think it would ruin your friendship. But you know him better than us
ive had a crush on aload of me friends since i was 12 lol. and 2 watch the guy u fancy masterbating aint appauling at all! god knows i try 2 do it all the time and succeed =p and yeh it is probs best 2 come out 2 him maksthings way easier and u neva know he cud b like my friends and b really open with ya
Thanks guys, i'm still one sided on the issue. I'll probably do it soon, but not too soon. I know I shouldn't, but I feel like if I do tell him, I have to tell him that I fooled around with his cousin too. -such sorrow.
