well i have this bf who ive been with for 2 years and the thing is that he thinks im bi, the reason he thinks im bi is because when i got with him i was experimenting to see how atracted to guys i was because i suspected to be i was lesbian instead of bi, and so i lost my virginity with him but im really not atracted to him that way or any other guy instead i think of girls all the time. his first gf turned out to be gay since he caught her cheating on him with another girl so he was very hurt when i told him i was "bi" and i just cant take it anymore i just want a gf. but its so hard because his is my best friend and i dont wanna hurt him, also we are kind of leaving together
honestly, the best thing you can do is to tell him. i think he'd be like, heart broken and totally crushed if he were to like, catch you with a chick. by hiding this from him as long as you are, yer only making it worse on him. i say tell him the truth. but like, let him know that you still love him, but yer not in love with him. tell him you guys can go on a chick hunt together! =P but seriously, you have to let him know like, as soon as possible. the longer you wait, the more hurt he's gonna be
well. i think youre only hurting him more the longer you keep with the lie. cause he's probably just going to get deeper into the relationship with you. and so when you finnaly do tell him, he'll just get hurt more. so as hard as it is to do, and as easy as it is for me to tell you to do it. the sooner the better honey. theres not really a way not to break his heart if he's in love with you. but theres always hope he will understand, if not at first, maybe eventually. you just have to explain from the heart. and hopefully things will work out for the best. good luck and best wishes.