Help

Ok, i am a guy and i like guys alot but some girls (not all) spark something(nothing real down there) would that be would i be gay or Bi because I find some women attracking but i not sexual attracted. help would be appacated (sorry i can not spell to save my life):help:

 

Hi lad! glad you are here. Learn to live in the light of day here at EC. Bi is great, so is straight. Gay is Gay, as they say. Its all good. Always be honest with your self and your pals, gfs and bfs. Cheers.

 

I think women are attractive, hell I think Taylor Swift and Beyonce are gorgeous. But just the fact you don't feel anything besides "oh she's beautiful" I think means you're probably gay. But frankly, don't label yourself. Just go with how you feel, plain and simple. Btw, how old are you, because I mean if you're only 15 or so there really isn't a need to HAVE to label yourself a certain sexuality. Hope that gives you a little help

 

I always used to ask myself the same thing but I realized that I'm sexually attracted to men not women so I know that I'm gay. Like Revan46 said if you don't feel anything other than that she's beautiful then you are likely gay.

 

Me i am 17 and in college

 

Here's something that might help you figure it out. A quote from a friend of a friend, when he was trying to figure out his sexuality.

Do you think you could honestly be happy entirely if you were with a girl? Could you love her as much as she would love you when you married her? If so, and you're being honest, you could be bisexual. If not, you might want to consider that you're just flat out gay.

 

Intresting. I will have to think about that one because yes i do look at gay porn (alot) and I have no sexual fanacise of weman so, yes i will sleep on that one. thanks. I will have to get back you you on that one.

 

I think i could if she was the 'one' and i loved her euough then yes otherwise no i would be unhappy and maybe inforfilled.

 

will my answer is GAY i could love a women but not as much as she loves me.

 

I enjoy going to burlesque shows, which mainly consist of women taking their clothes off. I'm friends with several of the women. They're all pretty, and some I daresay are downright stunning. I like watching them perform, and I love hanging out with them.

...but I don't have any interest in getting into their pants.

Lex

 

I think i am like you

 

Then stick with gay. I've found many women love hanging out with guys who have no interest in getting physical with them.

Lex

 

works for me