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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Ornicus Orca, Apr 16, 2010.

  1. Ornicus Orca

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    Ok, So i have this Hairy chest, hairy thighs, hairy everything, including ass and lower back, but im 14, and gay, and i know being gay doesn't necessarily stop you from being hairy, but still, im 14...I look like a wookie from star wars...If i didn't care about how i looked i'd shave my facial hair everyday it grows back so quick :dry: I don't know whether its growing up or if i've inherited a gene from my dad, He's quite hairy...Like father, like son? :confused::confused:
     

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    It's in your genes, I'm guessing. If you can pull it off, stop comparing yourself to other people your age.
     
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    You would be correct sir. Some people are naturally less hairy than others. Unfortunately, I'm not one of those lucky ones who can get away with not waxing. If you don't like it, bite the bullet and get rid of that hair. Especially if you want your husband to be smooth.
     
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    Ya it's your genes/ethnicity. You could be maturing earlier as well.

    @Johnnieguy : His husband? lol what?
     
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    Hi there! My advice? Stop worrying! Accept it! :slight_smile:

    You are hairy? So what! In the final analysis it doesn't really matter. Yes, you can wax, you can try to get some special hair removal creams, shave it off, and what not. But the thing is, it will grow back again and it might actually become even more if you do shave it off. Try not to worry about it, it is just a natural part of you like everything else.

    (*hug*)
     
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    Hey don't worry about it, some of us love a hairy body. Personally I want my man to have hair, so I wouldn't worry.
     
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    ah, welcome to my work. I too a bigfoot. I've tried waxing but it grows back sooo fast there is no point. I've looked into laser removal, but it is soooo expensive. I know shaving causes irritation, so we'll just have to find someone who loves furry people.
     
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    LOL! Well said! 'Furry people'.

    Personally, I love a man with hair, and I'm only 16. :wink:
    Don't worry about it, people like different things. There will be people out there who will like you. :wink:
     
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    My boyfriend is hairy, and I'm fine with it. He uses a body groomer to trim his body hair, and I think he looks super sexy!

    Accept what you've got and make the best of it.
     
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    I'm part wookiee myself. And I've grown to love it. Work on doing the same. If you're a great guy, nobody's gonna kick you outta bed for being furry. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    If it's really hairy, try trimming it, and bleaching it, so it won't look that dark =)
     
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    Iv got body hair too, honestly, it's not what i prefer in others but a lot of guys out there DO like it, especially if they DONT have it. It seems we always want what we cant have! So forget what you like in others and just be yourself, there will always be someone out there who likes you for who you are.
     
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    Here here. What's the point in liking men if you don't like some hair? Its sexy.

    Plus you aren't even into the Wookie range of things. You're at "normal" (that's right, I said it!). And you're 14. Do not sweat it, seriously.