i came out over a year ago everything is cool in that respect but now im out i no longer need to hide anything but to be honest i am not sure what i was hideing in the first place. well so to speak anyway i think that because i have been hideing for so long i have lost who i am if you know what i mean. i just don't know who i am and its a nightmare because it has cost me a relationship. i couldn't be compleatly open not because i wasn't comfortable or there was a lack of trust but because i just don't know who i am if this makes sense to anyone then can you give me some advice or something. thanks.
