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shaking, tingling

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by touchofgrey, Apr 25, 2010.

  1. touchofgrey

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    Hey.... so I am posting this question online because I'm WAY too embarrassed to ask it of anyone I know in person...

    I have been dating this girl and we were hanging out this evening and started hooking up. We got pretty into it, but as we were kissing/feeling/etc. I was aware that my legs and arms felt really tingly, and then I got really shaky and we ended up stopping. I got up to go to the bathroom and could hardly walk I was shaking so badly and I also got a bit light headed.

    Is this weird? I was really embarrassed. I thought maybe it was just adrenaline but I'm not sure....it was really weird and I'm a bit concerned. Any thoughts?

    Thanks!
     
  2. Lexington

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    It just means you were getting really sexually excited. It can happen, although it doesn't happen every time (or even most times). I find it most noticeable when standing. When my boyfriend has been, um, servicing me, sometimes my legs start REALLY getting wobbly. My boyfriend isn't weirded out by it. He just takes it to mean he's doing a really good job...and I should find something to hold on to. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    Don't feel weird, just enjoy the pleasurable feelings!
     
  4. Jim1454

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    Doesn't sound too unusual really. You were super excited, but also likely tense at the same time. Maybe breathing hard. All things that can lead us to hyperventilate and / or have circulation issues. Been there, done that. As you get more relaxed, it doesn't tend to happen.
     
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    nope nothing odd here. You just getting really aroused. it happens.

    A friend of mine told me she almost had an orgasm once just making out witha hot guy.
     
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    That's me , after ONE beer!
     
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    That's totally normal, just enjoy the time you have for each other and it will develop into a nice feeling. ^-^
     
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    Sounds like you were pretty close to having an orgasm.
     
  9. touchofgrey

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    Wow....thank you everyone! I don't feel so weird now.... Actually I feel good (*sheepish grin*)

    Thanks, all!