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Girls girls and more girls!!! but really do need some advice lol

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by NeonCookies, Apr 26, 2010.

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  1. NeonCookies

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    Okay so here it goes, there is this girl that i am completely crushing on i don't know her personally but she works at the pub that i go to, a few of my friends are friends with her and they know that i think she is the hottest thing that ever walked the face of the planet lol but anyways i have never made a move or talked to her because she had a girlfriend, well last night i was hanging out with one of my buddies and i find out that he used to be roommates with her, and they are really good friends he then informs me that she is no longer in a relationship and he says that i should go for it. lol

    But anyways i don't know if i should? should i talk to her? ask her out for some coffee or what not? i am super nervous and don't know if i could even open my mouth and talk when i am in front of her lol

    any advice or suggestions would be fantastical thanks :grin:
     
    #1 NeonCookies, Apr 26, 2010
  2. Pepsi

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    so, theres a hot girl, she's a lesbian, and you like her -.- ASK HER OUT! The worst that can happen is she says no and then its on to the next one :slight_smile: I mean like you said you don't know her that well so it couldn't hurt too bad if she said no could it? Think of how much more irritating the situation could be. Yes I understand you're nervous but things in life don't happen if you don't take chances.
     
    #2 Pepsi, Apr 26, 2010
  3. AlyssWonderland

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    Why NOT go for it? I would. I'm not exactly an expert in relationships, but I can't think of any reason why I wouldn't. :slight_smile: Good luck!
     
    #3 AlyssWonderland, Apr 26, 2010
  4. valerievalerie

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    Make sure she's definitely single, but then go for it, absolutely!!
     
    #4 valerievalerie, Apr 26, 2010
  5. Chandra

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    Yep, go for it. And then report back to us! :icon_bigg
     
    #5 Chandra, Apr 26, 2010
  6. NeonCookies

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    Haha okay i will!!! thanks for the encouragement everyone and don't worry i will be defiantly reporting back to you guys :grin:
     
    #6 NeonCookies, Apr 26, 2010
  7. Elesbian47

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    How did it go?!!
     
    #7 Elesbian47, May 2, 2010
  8. Chandra

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    Yeah, update update!
     
    #8 Chandra, May 2, 2010
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