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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by hkguy1, May 7, 2010.

  1. hkguy1

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    So its been awhile since I've been on Empty Closets and a lot has happened thus far. So lets start from the beginning. This past weekend I went to a 21st Birthday party. The kid whose birthday it was has to me on some level been questionable as to his sexuality but were only friendly acquaintances ( and secretly I've always kinda found him kinda cute). So when I finally get to this party he's already pretty intoxicated. One of my friends tells me that basically he's been on a "make out rampage", kissing not only girls but guys too. Later on in the night I see him, he approaches me, and immediately begins to french kiss me. Needless to say I'm a little thrown off but go along with it. Before the night is over this happens once again. Fast forward to this past Tuesday. I guess you could say that at this point I'm really beginning to crush on him, so because I don't have his number I send him a pm on facebook asking if he would like to go on a date. As of right now he hasn't responded and it's driving me crazy. I mean I'm pretty sure he's not straight but even if he was or if he wasn't interested he could at least say so. ugh.:bang:

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    Don't stress about it. If he likes you, you'll hear back from him. If you don't, well you haven't really lost anything and keep looking for Mr. Right.
     
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    I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Good luck!
     
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    Prepare for the answer to not be positive. Or, even worse, for him not to respond at all. Remember - you were somewhere between the eighth and twentieth person he kissed that night. Now it MAY be that he DOES have a thing for you, in which case, groovy. But don't think he has to simply because he played a little tonsil hockey with you that night. Time will tell. :slight_smile:

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    ^ "groovy" lol
     
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    Keep us updated :grin:
     
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    I thought you'd laugh at "tonsil hockey", not groovy. :slight_smile:

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    "tonsil hockey" is worthy of a roflmao or something like that, but groovey takes me back to 7th grade, circa 1970 something.
     
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    ^ Ha ha, you're older than me. :grin:

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    lmao...ya man, good luck :grin:
     
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    Yeah! That's what I meant. LMAO!