there comes a time in life....

I said it once this evening, and I'll say it again.

You go, Preston

(*hug*)

 

Aww man he gave you herpes?

 

oh ok lol

sorry though. People can be immature as fuck.

 

Hate is such a strong word. Dislike him and move on.

 

I was gonna say something like this lol.

 

For someone who is "moving on", you still appear quite angry and bitter.

 

I think "hate" is a really strong word like it has been mentioned above, and maybe you might not want to use it! But, you go!

 

I also must say that "hate" is very, very strong. We have enough hate towards other people on this planet; we don't need more unless it is absolutely positively warranted.

There's not much more I can say to this. I can't even congratulate you since this is territory I am unfamiliar with. But good luck with your life, and I hope you can get past this.

 

Don't become something you are not. And again, "hate" is very strong indeed. Don't let some loser turn you into a monster (even if you are only going to be mean to him). It's out of character....it doesn't feel right. I know how you feel b.c I went through a break up where the guy doesn't even talk to me after his countless promises and assurances that he's the most caring person you will ever meet. People lie alll the time.

In any case....if you have to let out the anger/hurt/pain/sadness out, then do so...just don't do something you will regret.

All the best <3

 

As someone who bears the scars of hating someone, I must say I advise against it.

Hating someone is an excruciatingly draining process to go through. It takes everything out of you; it even takes things you didn't know you had.

Sure, you're bound to be hurt by what he did, I think anyone would be. It's perfectly normal to be angry. But don't let it consume you. You have to leave it behind or those feelings will consume you. Your feelings of bitterness will do the same. I understand it is a comfort for you at the moment to feel that way, but it will soon wear out. Then it will take more and more of your time and energy, time and energy that could be spent on moving on and being the better person.

I think we've all been through a case where we feel strongly about our dislike for a person, but very few people have this dislike breed into the vicious dragon that is hatred. I'm sorry to hear he didn't treat you right, or whatever happened to bring about the end of the relationship, but please don't let it hold you back from living your life.

 

While you may have improved, my previous point still stands. What I'm trying to say is don't let your anger consume you.

 

It sure does my friend, and don't let him waste another minute of it.

 

True, the best of us have said things we regret. Hope your feeling better and getting on with things now.

 

Good for you for making the break, and yeah, sometimes you say things you don't mean when you're raging. I've been there. Cutting her out of my life was incredibly satisfying. The rage does ease, and someday not too far away, you'll be able to think of him and just think "I'm glad I've moved on from him", and not waste any stronger emotion on him.