OK... now i am ready to come out. but the thing is is that i won't blurt it out of nowhere... i want to talk about a subject, and eventually lead to It. Like i said multiple times, I have a transsexual uncle, who my dad doesn't seem to hate......... so I think i'll talk about him. what do you guys think?
Definitly talk to your uncle, I am sure that he would be happy to help! Also, try these people, they can help too: http://www.glnh.org/index2.html
Since you are already out to other people, I think the best way to come out completely is to act as if you already are. That way, it will naturally lead itself into conversations, giving you many chances to tell people.