Answer to the Boyfriend question...?

If that's what you think you're ready for (gotta be really sure with this), I think you can go ahead and ask how serious he is. Just be ready for any outcome to that question. But inquiring minds want to know, and I think you really care about him and want the best for the both of you (separately or together). I'm not a fan of long distance relationships, but that's only because mine didn't work out. If you can find a way for it to work, more power to you, and that shows even more of a dedication you have. It will require a significantly increased effort to keep things strong.

Hope the conversation goes well.

 

Hope it goes well, the only person who can tell if he want's to have sex is you. Personally I don't think he does just want sex, reason being he said he wanted you to live with him? So maybe he want's a relationship.

 

To be honest, long distance relationships NEVER work in the end...at least that has always been my experience. To truly have a relationship with someone, I believe, you have to not only be in the same place emotionally, but physically as well. If a long distance relationship does work, both people have to be VERY strong. Absence doesn't always make the heart grow fonder...sometimes it simply makes the heartache worse.

To your question of is he serious or just wants sex? Well, there is really no sure fire way to answer that one sadly. You said he really helped you during your coming out process, so it would seem if this guy was a slut he would have taken advantage of the situation then.

 

Your not hopeless! Its just since the last time you talked to him maybe his work schedual and free time activities have changed in such a way he doesnt get a lotta time to go online. You sent him the message just be patient.

 

I hope he is too so you can start to maybe calm down =) Here is hoping everything goes well =)

 

I don't have any advise but try to keep busy with other things. You sent him the message so you can't really make him see it any faster. I would suggest playing a mindless video game, watching a good movie, going out and exercising, hanging out with friends, or just going to sleep to help ignore it for now until he sees it.

 

He'll come on in the end. If not to see you to see his other friends...


Your NOT hopeless, you WILL get somebody in the end.

 

That or he blocked you already

 

Hahaha don't worry he'll respond. If he's been your best friend for years, he won't leave you like that.

However in the rare case that he doesn't respond after a longer period of time and you know he's online (and possibly avoiding you) and whatnot never ever be afraid to say hi and casually walk into the conversation. It's better to know where your relationship with him is rather than having him keep you guessing cause then he's just playing games with your heart and nobody deserves that.

Good luck

 

Patients.