so recently my friend told me that she likes me... and i like her too and we're sort of going out but i still think i might like guys too... what do i do?:help:
if you like her, then let it be. it doesn't have to be complicated. take things slow. if you are not sure, then go slower.
Being bi means you can like both guys and girls... you're not turning your back on liking guys, you're just trying to figure everything out. One word of advice... take it slow! Good luck!
Well, you like her emotionally or physically? Emotion is the key to determine your orientation, i read it from somehwre, if you will be able to fall in love with her, then you can be straight. But let just say that you are bi for now, since you both like guys and her
I don't think you can fall in love with someone or have a succesfull relationship with them if you're you're physically not attracted to him/her.....or can you? Of course, if you're bi then you could be able to feel attracted to both men and women, physically and emotionally too.
I find it to be the other way around. There's this girl who I'm emotionally in love with, but since I've never been physically attracted to her (or any girl for that matter), I know I'm gay.
my advice to anyone who goes through something like this is to like, follow yer heart. what does it matter than you like her and like guys as well? if you were dating a dude, you'd still like guys as well, yah? so, just follow yer heart. if you dig her, and she digs you, go out with her.
Oops!! Sorry for the really dumb question!! I didnt even see the out status!! Sorry!! *nervous laughter*
Well, you can, because at some point, love is not only for the look or apperance. Well, maybe it's becuz she's got good personality that makes you feel admire about her. Sometimes those emotion feelings arent as deep as you think. Just liek you, I also like this girl at school because she is such a good friend, but i dont wanna be with her as a couple When you talk about falling in love, it is something deeper
its hard to seperate 'love' as a lover and 'love' as an admired best friend. a lot of girls i found attractive, both beauty and personality, but hey! i cant get a hard-on thinking of her! just take it slowly, bro
*sigh* this is exactly the problem with societiy. you either have to be strait gay or bi. but thats rediculouse. you might as well classify the whole world into people who like chocolate and people who like vanilla. it just wouldnt work! sorry im not angry at you im angry at society. my suggestion is forget about your orientation. if you like a girl go for it. if you like a guy go for it. dont restrain yourself by saying that you only like guys or whatever. just like i wouldnt say ill never eat vanilla cuz i like chocolate more. ill still have vanilla when i want it. i know i probilly didnt make any sense.... but i tryed my best
