What's the best way to handle someone who speaks to you too sexually?

Is it in person or online? It's pretty easy to handle online. Something like "Hm. That kind of talk might be fun if I liked you like that, but I guess I really don't. Sorry. / ".

Lex

 

Respond back sexually and see what they say.

 

Phfft. If I had people wanting to talk to me sexually...

But anyway, if you really can't stand it you could always turn the conversation down some unpleasant route, like talking about bowel movements.

 

Then you might simply say "You probably should save that for somebody who will respond in kind." Just act bored. They should get the message.

Lex

 

Or be honest with them. Say, "hey, that makes me uncomfortable. Can you not?"

 

Just give them this face:


but really, just look at them funny. Give them a face that says, "are you sure you don't wanna rephrase that?" That usually works for me. No one wants to look like they've overstepped a boundary.

 

When people do this to me, I kind of blow them off with a "wow, are you really that dumb" type of attitude. People usually don't like that, and if it's a friend, they usually are understanding and don't do it anymore, probably because they don't want their friend thinking of them as adolescent, (but then again, I usually don't really think they're stupid. I usually just act like I think they're stupid because I know some people like to have fun, and if I show that I don't agree with it, they usually stop around me).

If it's someone who's not a "friend," it's a little different. I think completely ignoring them could work. If it persists to a level where it becomes harmful, I would talk to someone.

 

just tell him no...misser.....no ... no

 

you could just say wow your a little forward aren't you? that ussaly works for me to get people to stop.

 

I think you're being vague. I need specific examples, then I would probably understand better.

Facial expressions tell it all, and sometimes more than words do. Give them a face that goes in accordance to how you feel when they talk to you like that. It should give them a hint. Otherwise, just be polite and tell them that that type of talk makes you feel uncomfortable and uneasy. I know that sometimes it can take a lot for people to get a hint or fully understand what you're trying to say, but you need to do something about it if it's bothering you. You can say disagree and say no to people and still be polite and nice.

Good luck<3

---------- Post added 10th Aug 2010 at 07:44 PM ----------

LMAO, I love that picture.