Okay, I've arranged a date with a guy. He's absolutely awesome we've talked on the phone and texted for hours on end. And we both feel like it's a good thing. I don't want to rush but I could definitely see myself being in a relationship with him. A few questions I have He's a virgin & I'm a virgin and neither of us know what we want sexually. Any suggestions for when the big moment finally comes? Also, being that neither of us have been in a gay relationship before, is there anything else I should keep in mind? ---------- Post added 19th Aug 2010 at 12:17 AM ---------- And yes we've talked about alot of this already
>>>He's a virgin & I'm a virgin and neither of us know what we want sexually. Any suggestions for when the big moment finally comes? Don't wait for a "big moment" to come. Talk about it. Discuss what you're interested in trying, and what he might be interested in trying, and what you'd rather not do right now. Stock up on condoms and lube, and practice putting both on. FAR too many people think "Ah, we won't do that (yet)"...and then they decide they wanna, and what the heck, we're both clean, so... No. >>>Also, being that neither of us have been in a gay relationship before, is there anything else I should keep in mind? Communication. Lack of communication dooms more relationships than anything else, I'm guessing. You don't have to talk about absolutely everything the second you think or feel it, but keep the channels open, and if you're confused about something he's saying or doing, ask. (Him, not us.) Lex
Ok so Condoms & lube & communication. I think that some of that talk can wait a little bit, but I guess your right, it can't hurt to have condoms & lube, sooooo I guess I should get some at some point in the near future...
Alright, alright I'll get em. ---------- Post added 19th Aug 2010 at 09:01 AM ---------- Another question I guess since we are on the topic of condoms and lube, what kind of lube is best? I don't want something that would be sticky or overly messy, but I want something good
I mean, anything water-based. Just get something, and if you all don't like it, get something else. You have to try 'em out.
Well it doesnt matter because it all fell apart anyway. I'm sad now, but whatever, I guess life goes on right?
