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when will i know

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by confused102188, Aug 21, 2010.

  1. confused102188

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    I feel ready to come out now but will the nervousness ever go away?
     
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    I wish I could say it would, but being nervous is a natural part of life. And since coming out is such a HUGE event of one's life...nervousness is just common. Good luck :slight_smile:
     
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    its seems as if we both have the same issue... and i dont think it does..
     
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    Omg you guys I came out for the first time!!! It was so great and now the nervousness is gone!
     
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    Congrats :slight_smile: Like I said nerves will be there...though I suppose I should have said it does kinda disappear after you've told the person lol. Who was it?
     
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    well done :slight_smile:
     
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    It was my 2 best friends they are girls and they said they knew. Lol I was kinda annoyed that they knew cause I thought I hid it better.
     
  9. TheEdend

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    They are your best friends for a reason :slight_smile: They know you better than any other friend :slight_smile:

    Congrats! :slight_smile:
     
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    Well done, thats fantastic news :slight_smile:
     
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    lol, I know the feeling :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    Congratulations, it'll all get easier, and eventually matter-of-fact now :slight_smile: (well, when you tell most people anyway).
     
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    Tis true.
     
  13. paco

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    i told you so. i think i mentioned in one of your previous threads that your best friend knew. if i didn't, i was thinking it :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    heh i was going to reply saying the nervousness goes away after you tell them...looks like you found that out though! :slight_smile: grats
     
  15. Owen91

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    Yeah at first every time brought me a little bit of nerves, but now it's more of just a statement of a fact. It's become a lot easier. :slight_smile:
     
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    Well done, it may get easier to tell people now.