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It's common to feel unattractive, and there's not too much to be done about it. Body image is hard to deal with. The best thing is to make sure you're well-groomed, eating and exercising regularly, and dressing well. Oh, and to pay attention to thoughts of ugliness and to mentally refute them.

But the more general feeling of unworth probably isn't just body image. You should probably do a self-inventory of your feelings about yourself and see what else is there, maybe seek counseling or do some self-work.

Finally, coming out is a good idea for boosting self-esteem and -worth. But, and this is important, it won't guarantee you a boyfriend.

 

ok well these threads are a dime a dozen so just know your not alone in that sense so let me tell you what I know, meeting someone will happen, just probably in a way you didn't expect and definatly not, well probably not immediatly but it will happen, that said it will help if you try to speed it along for example, join clubs, are there any gay youth projects in your area? maybe if you don't want to be out out you could just say your going to the cinema etc, normal youth clubs are good too so then you don't have to lie, generally uhh be social

Also excersize helps with the self esteem

 

I know how you feel, but you can't really force yourself into a relationship. It just has to happen naturally.

Don't worry, though. There's someone out there for you.