What are some things you guys to meet gay guys? I'm not into the stereotypical flamboyant gay guys so its harder for me to meet someone that's gay and I find attractive. I saw a guy today with one of those rubber Livestrong style bands except it was rainbow/tie die. Pretty subtle, but definitely sent home the message. What else is like that, that I could do? I was thinking of getting one of those bands too Just a way if you're at a party it's like an "OK TO HIT ON ME" sign for gay guys that might otherwise stay quiet assuming you're straight.