I wanna be a lesbian but I don't know if it's for me. Any advice? Most guys I've tried to date / have dated are jerks. Maybe being a lesbian is my option.
Well being a lesbian is not something you choose to be. Its not a case of im gay because guys are dicks or immature or anything like that, I am gay because thats how I was born and I am naturally attracted to girls and not guys. Lots of people get confused when it comes to their sexuality and thats ok often it takes a while to work it out, so if your saying, im attracted to girls and guys but ive never dated a girl before any advice then you will definately find some help and advice here, but if your not attracted to girls then by all means stick around people here are amazing but unfortunately I cant give you any help on learning to like girls, it doesnt work like that. If the case is that you are only attracted to guys then perhaps you should try dating a different type of guy and then maybe you will get along better. Maybe you could tell us a bit more about your back ground if there is something we can help you with.
Sigh.........lol. You can't just say "Oh hey, guys are assholes, I want to date and have sex with girls!" You're either attracted to them or you're not. Do you feel a sexual and emotional attraction to females? To males? I'm gay and I'm sexually and emotionally attracted to other guys. Looking at a naked guy is . Looking at a naked girl is...ewww Cuddling with a guy is
The thing that's confusing me isn't the whole "I want to be a lesbian" part. I'm confused that you've been a member of this site for almost an entire year, you've posted over 200 times, you state you're a lesbian under your name there, and you say you're out to two people. And NOW you say "I want to be a lesbian"? I mean, no offense, but what have you been doing the last year or so? What have you been coming out as, if not a lesbian? Lex
I'm kinda confused here. Do you mean to say you want to start acting on your attraction towards women? Or are you just bored with guys?
Well I just quickly knocked up a little quiz you can do to find out if you're a lesbian. Q. 1 Do you want to sleep with men, but not women? Q. 2 Do you want to sleep with women, but not men? Q. 3 Do you want to sleep with both? Answers: Q. 1 if answered yes, you are straight. Q. 2 if answered yes, you are gay. Q. 3 if answered yes, you are bi. Sexuality is a lot deeper than that, with many more options, but this is a good starting basis that might help you think things through... Remember, sexuality isn't a choice.
This is like a faux-comical twilight zone episodes...I have no idea what to say. You can't just chose to be a lesbian b.c guys are assholes. I can't just say: Ohhh I want to be straight now b/c all the guys I have had experiences with have been horrible/mean/complicated. You are attracted to either or both or none, the end. Each gender has its own problems/complications.
I had problems with girls and thought gay was who I was. And while maybe at first you could say it was a choice, turns out it wasn't because eventually I really came into my own and embraced that I was indeed gay. But you can't choose to be gay and that's all there is to it.
