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So there's this girl...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by peaceandlies, Sep 15, 2010.

  1. peaceandlies

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    And she's really tipping my gaydar sensors. I don't know why. I've checked the usual things - nails, clothes, hair, and she seems gay, but i need more info. how do you check futher. i'm trying to get her facebook, but i dont know her well enough to ask her sirname, and she's not on the fb of the person i met her through.
     
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    Maybe finding out what she likes to do in her spare time, or places she likes to go or things could help you further. It depends how much you talk to her but you could ask her if she is single or if she has a partner, just in an enquiring way.
     
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    Yeah. good idea. i guess we have just enough communication for that
     
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    I think the more you chat to her the better your judgement will be, you could always try a very subtle bit of flirting and see how she reacts, its always going to be a feeling one way or the other unless she actually comes out to you.
     
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    I can tell you from personal experience that the only way to be sure is to flat out ask her.

    And yeah, I know that's probably not the best approach.
     
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    ^lol. yeah, i've finally got her facebook - took a group photo and told her i needed to tag her. i'm out, but not telling everyone i meet unless they ask me. its kind of awkward to just tell her in mid conversation