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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Roxas101, Sep 27, 2010.

  1. Roxas101

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    Hey guys,

    Had A COMPLELTELY weird experience today. I logged onto my Facebook, and had a friend request from this kid I didn't know. Being thew curious type that I am, I accepted it and started up a conversation.

    Turns out that the kid had picked up my Facebook account from the website of a gay youth group I attend/used to attend on occasion. It was really strange, because I got to be the one giving advice, handing out links (like this one) and telling him about the youth group, etc.

    I just think it was strange and worthy of mention. Apparently, I have gone from the kid who needs a bunch of help to someone to ask questions and go to for help. Weird.

    Anyone else experienced this? It was... Strangely nice... Being able to help someone. I dunno. Just seemed like I was giving back or something.

    Cheers,
    Kaleb.
     
  2. Lexington

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    It's called "paying it forward" (even if he contacted you first), and it's a great feeling. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
  3. malachite

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    I kind feel that way toward my gay friends, when I first came out I was the one asking all the questions and freaking out about things, now everyone seems to come to me for help.
     
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    I love that feeling :slight_smile: About a year ago, I was the closeted one that all my gay friends would give advice. Now I'm giving out advice to my many closeted friends! It feels really great to help people ♥
     
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    It is a rather nice feeling, isn't it?

    And it's definitely something you should enjoy. Because you earned it!