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what does this mean?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by crimsonarcher, Sep 29, 2007.

  1. crimsonarcher

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    anyone remember about the guy-in-summer-school-who-sits-behind-me thing I used to talk about in the summer?


    well,...he gave a letter to me through a girl we both know...

    he said, "why are you scared. i see no point in being scared..."

    what does he mean?

    he either knows I'm gay or he knows i used to like him (which would then mean I'm gay)
    ....

    I haven't even seen him since i was given the letter.
    what does this all mean?

    :confused:
     
  2. EthanS

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    :grin: oo he probly is gay
     
  3. Ty

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    The guys definitly gay
     
  4. rorotherara

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    Gay :] BUT since you are smart little cookie, test the waters, test the waters. I've known so many who were lured into traps by cruel evil little straight twits. SO, make sure he is. Flirt, he flirts back. Etc etc.
     
  5. Ilayis

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    sounds gay to me
     
  6. ALieToDieFor

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    Oh snap.
    LOl i wouldve been as nervous as heck.
    Well either you did something to make him think you are scared or he is gay and knows you are gays and wants to know why you are scared to say something to him.
     
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    Ok, the gaydar just went off, but seriously, you should go and talk to him.
     
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    yea definitly gay
     
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    GAY:slight_smile:

    1st of all, base on his question, he wanna comfort you not to be scared, taht means it's ok to be gay if he already knows you are gay, so taht means he maybe gay too
    (but or a straight guy who is ok with gay people)

    BUT why didnt he send the letter to you by himself, or talk to you face to face, taht means he is nervous as well, when a guy is nervous about nother guy, he must have some emotion for that guy, or he is gay
     
  10. crimsonarcher

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    that's what i thought too...

    OK...monday, i'll have to find him...

    ahh, I'm so excited, yet nervous!!
     
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    Talk to him face to face ask him "so what do you think I'm scared about, and what are your fears" look him in the eye, you'll get the message. (the eyes are the window to the soul) greg
     
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    I'm thinking Gay too..

    Good luck on Monday!
     
  13. Louise

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    It means he's as scared as you. One of you has got to be brave, sounds like he's interested to me :thumbsup:
     
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    Sounds to me he has taken a bit of the intuitive and broken the ice so to speak. I would consider it a means of saying he is interested in you but couched in such a way as to be able to give another explanation should you reject the idea of him being gay. But would definitely follow up on it. It actually sounds promising.
     
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    its wednesday, hows it goin on monday?
     
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    lmao. -.-
    I wanna know too!
    Did you freak out and decide to dodge?
    Its cool if you did I wouldnt have...but thats just me.
    Lots of people get scared or over-welled when comfrontimg someone they
    like.
    Like this guy taylor who sits behind me in my autoshop class...Talk about sexy :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    idk if he knows im bi..but i sure as hell want him to know
     
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    imo, you can't determine if a dude is gay from a letter like crimson got. i mean, the dude could just be like, straight, but ok with gay people. test the waters is my advice
     
  18. godfather

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    probs gay but speak to him first:icon_bigg
     
  19. crimsonarcher

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    well, he hasn't went to school since he gave me the note...I'm kinda starting to get worried.
     
  20. Louise

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    Well, he is either sick or is really worried about the note he sent you.

    The best way to stop worrying is to take a course of action. You could send him a note, through the friend who gave you his note, just saying Hi, how ya doin, haven't seen you around much this week.

    That's pretty neutral but shows that you have noticed his absence, ie that you care. :thumbsup: