I am a big fan of the "It Gets Better" Campaign, but perhaps the video that has helped me the most is this one from Gene Robinson - the OPENLY GAY - Bishop of New Hampshire in the Episcopal Church (and yes he was elected as an openly gay man with a partner). The Episcopal Church, otherwise known as the Anglican Communion (outside the USA), is the third largest Christian Communion in the world after Roman Catholicism & the Eastern Orthodox Churches. Anyway, take a look! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mPZ5eUrNF24
I've been visiting the Episcopalians lately, it's definitely a far cry from the denomination I was a part of for the last decade and a half, where the question of whether the law should be changed to make homosexuality a capital crime is considered a topic acceptable for debate instead of something that should be instantly condemned.