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My first kiss!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by RainbowJay, Nov 16, 2010.

  1. RainbowJay

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    I can now honestly sing: I kissed a girl and I liked it!

    Unfortunately, she was a little bit tense, but that's understandable as neither of us are experienced in the matter. Movies make kissing seem so easy! Ugh. We were in school, and she wanted to be in a completely secluded place (which was impossible to find) so I had to make it fast.

    I feel accomplished nonetheless, she might even become my girlfriend, but I doubt that'll happen (since she told me she'd probably be a kinsey 3).

    I'm not sure if I should try pursuing a relationship with her or try finding someone that's a lot more certain of their sexuality. Maybe it's too early to say, as I'm only a senior in high school, but even middle-schoolers are getting feisty. :icon_eek:
     
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    I'm so glad for you! I remember my first kiss, in the back of a JC Penney, which turned into my first make-out session. My situation actually was a lot like yours. I wanted to have the relationship, but he was also a Kinsey 3 (but I still say he's at least a 4). I pushed him too much too fast and lead to my first break-up. I say that you need to take it slow especially if she's questioning herself. If you really like her, then just help her ease into being herself, then get into the fun stuff. It may not seem like fun now, but it'll be so worth it in a few months.
     
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    CONGRATZ!! I fully get your excitement because it happened to me too tonight!

    YAY FOR FIRST GAY KISSES :grin: :grin: :grin: :grin: :grin: :grin: :grin: :grin: :grin:
     
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    Why would this preclude her being your girlfriend?
     
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    Yay!
    (*hug*)

    I remember my first gay kiss. It was with one of the other bi's in my year at school, Happy days.

    Anyhoo, if you really like her, just take it slowly. If she's still questioning then rushing her into anything could seriously hurt her. If you don't feel like getting into a relationship with her, get out and about! Find someone else!

    Your choice.

    Thing
    (*hug*)
     
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    Congratulations!

    I have yet to kiss a guy but I do know I will like it. I just hope he will be a good kisser lol

    That's a huge step though and I am happy for you, I mean at least someone out there is getting kissed :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Yea!!!!
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    Congrats! Kisses are awesome :icon_bigg

    However, I'm gonna have to agree with adam88 here. There might be something else that you just haven't told us, but a Kinsey 3 can be just as sure about their sexuality as a Kinsey 0, 6, or any other number in between
     
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    I agree - it's possible to know that you're bi, I'm sure.
     
  11. *dreamy sigh* I remember my first kiss with a girl too, in great detail. :icon_bigg

    Congratulations!:eusa_clap:eusa_danc
     
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    my first kiss was with a girl. I don't really remember my first gay kiss >.<
     
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