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Keagan18 · 14th Jan 2011, 07:12 PM

i broke up with my bf because all he wanted was sex not me.. and he got mad at me for breaking up with him... he even went to the extreme to tell me that he's deleted me off facebook, deleted every picture, and my number... so does every guy just want sex... or am i the only one who doesnt??

starfish · 14th Jan 2011, 07:45 PM

Nah, sounds like the guy was a douche.

Zontar · 14th Jan 2011, 07:59 PM

No, but you'll find it a recurring theme in relationships. Much like straight women do. I think it's just the way society raises boys..."the more you fuck, the better you are!"

Keagan18 · 14th Jan 2011, 08:02 PM

thank you

VentinIntrovert · 14th Jan 2011, 08:32 PM

Funny cause the first time I had sex it was horrible. I thought that my hand was better. Regardless falling in love goes much deeper than pleasure through sex.

Beachboi92 · 14th Jan 2011, 08:59 PM

your guy was a douche but there are other guys like that. I have dealt with them...

knight of ni · 15th Jan 2011, 08:15 AM

I'm sorry to hear that your ex was such an unpleasant person. Unfortunately there are some people like that. But there are guys out there who will appreciate you for who you are, and who are not simply out to get as much action as possible.
So chalk this one up to a learning experience and move on!

malachite · 15th Jan 2011, 08:35 AM

No not all guys are like this, just the drama queens, and there are lots of them.
Since you called him only wanting sex, he has to make you out to be the bad guy so he doesn't feel and blame, and unfortunatly most people ARE like that

Holmes · 16th Jan 2011, 05:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Zontar

No, but you'll find it a recurring theme in relationships. Much like straight women do. I think it's just the way society raises boys..."the more you fuck, the better you are!"

It's not society (or at least not just), it's biology. Like men are more interested in porn than women. But we all vary.

My own then boyfriend recently broke up Saturday of last week, for kind of the opposite reason. We had been good friends, but once we started going out, I wanted a full relationship, he was happy with something just above friends with benefits. He realized I was more committed, and thought it better to break up.

Keagan18 · 25th Jan 2011, 01:58 PM

ok... now he wants to get back together..... 2 weeks later he is apologizing, practically begging for me to take him back..... and this is the guy that completely cut me off.. and im not even sure if i want to be friends with him....

Shevanel · 25th Jan 2011, 02:00 PM

Well don't let him control you by taking him back

malachite · 25th Jan 2011, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Keagan18

ok... now he wants to get back together..... 2 weeks later he is apologizing, practically begging for me to take him back..... and this is the guy that completely cut me off.. and im not even sure if i want to be friends with him....

Never forget the wrongs someone has done to you, it might not sound great but ppl don't often change, and if they do they don't change over night.

14th Jan 2011, 07:12 PM	#1
Keagan18 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone but extended family Location: Pulaski, TN Posts: 41 Join Date: Nov 2010	are all guys like this? i broke up with my bf because all he wanted was sex not me.. and he got mad at me for breaking up with him... he even went to the extreme to tell me that he's deleted me off facebook, deleted every picture, and my number... so does every guy just want sex... or am i the only one who doesnt??

14th Jan 2011, 07:45 PM	#2
starfish This space for lease. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 32 Posts: 2,883 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: are all guys like this? Nah, sounds like the guy was a douche. __________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson

14th Jan 2011, 07:59 PM	#3
Zontar Neko Boy Full Member Gender: Male Location: Binghampton, NY Posts: 2,075 Join Date: Oct 2010	Re: are all guys like this? No, but you'll find it a recurring theme in relationships. Much like straight women do. I think it's just the way society raises boys..."the more you fuck, the better you are!" __________________ Get up and open your eyes...Don't ever let yourself ever fall down... Get through it and learn how to fly...I know you'll find a way...today. -Days of the New, "Dirty Road"

14th Jan 2011, 08:02 PM	#4
Keagan18 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone but extended family Location: Pulaski, TN Posts: 41 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: are all guys like this? thank you

14th Jan 2011, 08:32 PM	#5
VentinIntrovert Venting Introvert Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Age: 25 Posts: 163 Join Date: May 2010	Re: are all guys like this? Funny cause the first time I had sex it was horrible. I thought that my hand was better. Regardless falling in love goes much deeper than pleasure through sex.

14th Jan 2011, 08:59 PM	#6
Beachboi92 Intellectually stimulating Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: queer Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Frederick Maryland Age: 20 Posts: 2,334 Join Date: Jul 2009	Re: are all guys like this? your guy was a douche but there are other guys like that. I have dealt with them... __________________ If you want to fly, you have to give up the things that weigh you down

15th Jan 2011, 08:15 AM	#7
knight of ni Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: parents, brothers and friends! Location: Birmingham, UK Age: 26 Posts: 135 Join Date: Jul 2009	Re: are all guys like this? I'm sorry to hear that your ex was such an unpleasant person. Unfortunately there are some people like that. But there are guys out there who will appreciate you for who you are, and who are not simply out to get as much action as possible. So chalk this one up to a learning experience and move on!

15th Jan 2011, 08:35 AM	#8
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 7,156 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: are all guys like this? No not all guys are like this, just the drama queens, and there are lots of them. Since you called him only wanting sex, he has to make you out to be the bad guy so he doesn't feel and blame, and unfortunatly most people ARE like that __________________ 4 out 5 divorcees agree that marriage is a sacred union.

25th Jan 2011, 01:58 PM	#10
Keagan18 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: everyone but extended family Location: Pulaski, TN Posts: 41 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: are all guys like this? ok... now he wants to get back together..... 2 weeks later he is apologizing, practically begging for me to take him back..... and this is the guy that completely cut me off.. and im not even sure if i want to be friends with him....

25th Jan 2011, 02:00 PM	#11
Shevanel One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Little Neck, NY Age: 22 Posts: 7,766 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: are all guys like this? Well don't let him control you by taking him back __________________ If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient.

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