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Old 14th Jan 2011, 07:12 PM   #1
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i broke up with my bf because all he wanted was sex not me.. and he got mad at me for breaking up with him... he even went to the extreme to tell me that he's deleted me off facebook, deleted every picture, and my number... so does every guy just want sex... or am i the only one who doesnt??
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Old 14th Jan 2011, 07:45 PM   #2
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Nah, sounds like the guy was a douche.
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Old 14th Jan 2011, 07:59 PM   #3
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No, but you'll find it a recurring theme in relationships. Much like straight women do. I think it's just the way society raises boys..."the more you fuck, the better you are!"
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Old 14th Jan 2011, 08:02 PM   #4
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Old 14th Jan 2011, 08:32 PM   #5
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Funny cause the first time I had sex it was horrible. I thought that my hand was better. Regardless falling in love goes much deeper than pleasure through sex.
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Old 14th Jan 2011, 08:59 PM   #6
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your guy was a douche but there are other guys like that. I have dealt with them...
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Old 15th Jan 2011, 08:15 AM   #7
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I'm sorry to hear that your ex was such an unpleasant person. Unfortunately there are some people like that. But there are guys out there who will appreciate you for who you are, and who are not simply out to get as much action as possible.
So chalk this one up to a learning experience and move on!
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Old 15th Jan 2011, 08:35 AM   #8
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No not all guys are like this, just the drama queens, and there are lots of them.
Since you called him only wanting sex, he has to make you out to be the bad guy so he doesn't feel and blame, and unfortunatly most people ARE like that
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Old 16th Jan 2011, 05:59 AM   #9
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No, but you'll find it a recurring theme in relationships. Much like straight women do. I think it's just the way society raises boys..."the more you fuck, the better you are!"
It's not society (or at least not just), it's biology. Like men are more interested in porn than women. But we all vary.

My own then boyfriend recently broke up Saturday of last week, for kind of the opposite reason. We had been good friends, but once we started going out, I wanted a full relationship, he was happy with something just above friends with benefits. He realized I was more committed, and thought it better to break up.
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Old 25th Jan 2011, 01:58 PM   #10
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ok... now he wants to get back together..... 2 weeks later he is apologizing, practically begging for me to take him back..... and this is the guy that completely cut me off.. and im not even sure if i want to be friends with him....
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Well don't let him control you by taking him back
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Old 25th Jan 2011, 02:10 PM   #12
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ok... now he wants to get back together..... 2 weeks later he is apologizing, practically begging for me to take him back..... and this is the guy that completely cut me off.. and im not even sure if i want to be friends with him....
Never forget the wrongs someone has done to you, it might not sound great but ppl don't often change, and if they do they don't change over night.
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