This is kinda like an update to my Acceptance thread I posted on the 29th Jan. I stated there that I thought I was gay and that everyone else in school sees me as very camp aswell. However, I later stated that I may also have feelings for a girl. However, recently, my feelings have not gone away for her and that now I definetly know she is into me. It has gotten to the point where even my closet friends are suggesting we should go out, even those who I have come out to. However, there are many problems why I feel I cannot (yet); She has recently broken up with someone who basically cheated on her, so she is still feeling very hurt. I know I have some feelings for other boys as well, and it is hard to seperate from what is a crush to what isnt. I don't know if it would work out, of course I could spend a lifetime being with them, but I don't know whether I could be as comfortable as I am with boys. I am not sure what to do. One minute I feel I should just go out with her and see where it would take me, whereas the next minute I feel as if I am more attracted to boys, meaning our relationship would never work out. I have waited to see whether my feelings would grow or shrink, and since they have neither gone away or grown stronger, I feel as if I should make a decision now, instead of having linguring feelings and thoughts.
I say you go for it. There is nothing that you to lose really and better find out than regret it later it on, right? Have you ever dated a girl before? What's different about this girl?
If you're interested in here, I say why not try it. I found after I dated girls that there is no where I would be as comfortable with a girl as I am with a guy, if only because of preferences. I did have feelings for the girl, but it wasn't the same as being with a guy...
