Many of us here are closet. I myself am not. This question is mainly for the people who are gay, not bi or any other sexuality you can come up with. Was or is there a guy/girl you like so much but dont know whether or not he/she is gay but if they ever came out the closet you would as well? Or You want to come out of the closet before he/she does so he/she knows you are actually gay but you think to yourself " If he/she isnt comfortable about themselves like I used to be then would he/she feel inferior to me? Would he/she ignore me because he/she doesnt want anyone else to know?" If you dont understand what Im getting at..let me know and ill try to further explain this.
I think I get it. I think I'd be better suited for the first one. I liked this guy that was in my history class. I didn't know if he was gay or not, but I think I would have come out if he came out. Lol, kinda clingy.
if someone i liked had the courage to come out to everyone, i'd come out to them. and probably everyone else also. it'd be kinda like... sharing the burden in a way. like... you'd know you werent going through it by yourself. that'd be kinda nice.
Most people who are in the closet will choos eteh 1st one, normally we are laied back But If i like some guy, i will rather come out to him 1st, because I can not wait, but I knwo it's bad soemtime sthat you will lose your friend if he is straight
Sort of. I think that if some one i was close with, or smitten with came out I might too, but I would want to be the second one to see how people reacted to him first, so I could know what to expect.
The second one is just saying that If you suspect someone you like is gay and you are going to come out of the closet but dont know how that would make him feel. Would he feel inferior to you and not want to hang around you because of what other people would think? Would that make him think he cant talk to you because everyone knows your gay and if you hung around him people might suspect something?
