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confuzzed and long overdue!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Jen52, Apr 2, 2011.

  1. Jen52

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    I have been living a double life for a long time! Male by day and female by night. I need advice on what to do!!!!!! My life has been a total secret until now that I have discovered empty closets! Please help me:smilewave
     
  2. DougieBoy

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    Drag is an option, i want to do it. you can perform in clubs in drag which looks like fun!
     
  3. starfish

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    Guess the question is what will make you happy? Do you want to be female full time?
     
  4. TyRawr

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    Have you considered seeking a gender therapist? There could be a possibility that you are trans-gendered, and if that is the case then it might be a good idea to talk to someone who know's more about the topic. There are a few people on here who might be able to help you, however, I know very little about the topic.
     
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    I do drag pretty much all over the country these days, and most of the queens I perform with are also trans, I know its hard, and lonely, but its really a sisterhood, be true to yourself and do what makes you happy (just say no to drugs)
     
  6. Wolfy

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    This.
    Your best option, is seeking a Gender Therapist like Ty said.
    I felt Male, instead of female for most of my life, and I only come out to my mom 4 weeks ago. Gender Therapy is fun to me.

    http://www.drbecky.com/therapists03.html If you need help on finding a Therapist.