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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by StarofMiyu, May 9, 2011.

  1. StarofMiyu

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    I won't be at my house ever again after tommorow...I'm going to ask to be put in a foster home because I can't live here anymore, I'm terrified of my father...he's disgusting, he called me gay and I was like is that supposed to be an insult, and he says gay is an abomination and is not what god intended so yes it is an insult. I'm going to ask my counselor to help me out of this...because I'm terrified..I'm not coming back to this house...so I might no be here for a while...just wanted to let anyone who..is my friend on here know.
     
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    I hope everything works out for you. I'm sorry about your dad. :frowning2: Try to keep us updated on what goes on while you work through this difficult time. (*hug*)
     
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    I'm sorry it has come to this. Hopefully your counselor can help you figure something out.

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  4. StarofMiyu

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    Yeah but, I seriously just can't live here anymore...I'm almost crying..
     
  5. DougieBoy

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    I'm not sure if that can happen, but i know you can go to court and get legally emancipated from your family. do not let him push you around! are you able to stay with a friend? hang in there, what he says means nothing, don't even think twice about it, shrug it off. live your life and love it!
     
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    That sucks hon. I hope something works out for you.
     
  7. StarofMiyu

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    I have...to lay low and live at my house until my counselor can figure something out..
     
  8. StarofMiyu

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    Um..not sure if this forum allows double posting but recently I have been so apathetic for doing anything and all my dad says is that the story of Leviticus says gay is an abomination, when it doesn't even say anything about gay. I am just so mad depressed and conflicted right now >w<
     
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    Not an easy situation to live with, but you won't be there forever. Strength to you ((hugs))
     
  10. StarofMiyu

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    I want out now..I'm sick of living with this bullcrap
     
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    Do you have relatives or friends you can stay with? I hope you councilor can come up with something for you. (*hug*)
     
  12. StarofMiyu

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    Not at the moment no..
     
  13. DougieBoy

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    ignore him, don't speak, pretend he isn't there. What about your mom?
     
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    A lot of people like your father keep saying being gay is something that god did not intend so I ask them if god did not intend for people to be gay then why does he make them or keep crating people who are gay. My prays go out to you, you have a purpose in life for why you are who you are. Trust me you will discover who you are soon enough.
     
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    I know who I am, a girl in a males body, and living like this is painful because I can't be a girl..because I don't look like one..
     
  16. StarofMiyu

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    But my orientation has been on a hetero swing lately..it keeps changing..I want my hormones and SRS Sooooo badly.
     
  17. DougieBoy

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    drag is always an option
     
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    Try finding some friends to stay with if you have no relatives to stay with. I'm pretty sure that the school will get you set up on some sort of independent's insurance through the state because of your situation.

    Just hang in there. I wish I could help more, but alas, I'm only a person on an internet forum.
     
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    (*hug*) I hope something works out for you