Ok so I found ou that there is this club called the gay-straight alliance at school where I go. Northern essex Community college. And I have been told by my family that it might be a good idea to join as well as some of my friends. DO you guys thinks I should look into this? And advise will help.
You're gay. You're out. You have the chance to join a club full of prospective new friends and dates who will pretty much completely accept you. Sounds like a plan.
I think it sounds like a great idea! A word of advice, though: If you feel majorly uncomfortable, don't stay. Through a friend I trust, I've been told that my school's GSA members tend to hit on people in the club quite a lot, which I think would make me uncomfortable. I'm still going to go and check it out, but if it doesn't work, then it doesn't.
Well, you say you aren't completely out, but you probably don't need to worry about that. At my school, nobody thinks there are any straight people in our GSA so people assume they are gay, but our neighborhood kinda sucks for gay people. Most people don't actually think the same way that the rich un-diverse people do around here. Being in college I could imagine it is much better. I would go once and see what it is like.
the thing is I have just begun to accept myself as being gay. So atm I am kinda scare and nervous about going. If I did i would probably bring someone with me to help me feel more comfortable.