:eek:Ok,so here's my issue. This may sound stupid..but I have a boy friend on the internet(like i said...long story) anyway, today he said im a friend with benifits, what should I do?! thanks for listening. plz help
So if I have understood this right, you thought he was your boyfriend and now he is saying that you are a friend with benefits? I think if you have never met him and now he is changing his mind about stuff then should just end any bf relationship you had and just have the guy as a friend. You are only 15 you will meet other guys that wont do that to you.
hmm...True, ( I'd never have sex..0-0 ) Aaany ways, thanks, Buck...your absoulutly right, im not someone who would be pushed to sex,especially with an internet dude thanks guys
I remember being 15 and doing the online relationships. It's a waste of time and a lot of heartbreak. Find someone near you or just be single and focus on your studies and friendships. Internet relationships especially at that age never really work and they don't really do anything for you. Plus, it is really nice to be able to feel your boyfriend next to you.
If you're asking me to take a stab at it, I'd interpret it as him saying he doesn't think an online relationship isn't equal to the full relationship experience and he sees you mora as a good friend he can actually act flirty with. Then again, that's just a guess here, and I usually try to interpret things in the most favourable way. Like Corporal Sparks said, asking him what exactly he meant is probably going to be more conductive than asking us to theorise about what he meant. Whether you're boyfriends or just friends, it's better to discuss this than to play word games with each other.
