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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by BloodyRose3000, Jun 11, 2011.

  1. BloodyRose3000

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    You know what's annoying, having 1000 things to potentially do and having no one to do them with. Doing something alone completely takes the fun out of it to the point where it's more depressing than enjoyable. Especially being from NYC, I'm always seeing exhibits or inexpensive concerts etc, but I almost never go to them because just about everyone I know moved away from NY. :bang:...
     
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    Hi there! How about trying to make some new friends with whom you can enjoy going to the concerts and exhibits?

    Is there a community centre nearby where you could join an activity that you would or could enjoy doing?
     
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    LMAO, I have no idea. How does that even work? And hey :slight_smile:!
     
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    Lol! Time to find out then. :wink: How did you get to know the people that moved away? :slight_smile:
     
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    Good ol' high school LOL.
     
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    Ah, I see. Time to join an activity then or something where you will have the chance to meet some new people. How would you feel about joining a youth LGBT social group or support group?
     
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    Ok,so I know how you feel,just went to a concert by myself cause I had no friends to go with.
    If your outgoing you can find more friends to hang with,but if you don't then that is tough,but only you will know how it can end.It is up to you to find more friends,and yes it is very depressing to not have any to enjoy the things that you love to see.
    Anyways I hope you can find some lucky soul to be your buddy and likes the same things you do.
    If not,just to let you know,the concert I went to alone cause two people ditched me at the last second,which I freaked out cause I didn't think I could enjoy it by myself............ I had the best time!!!!!The best part about it,which is mostly cause it was a concert,was that it took my mind off the part of being alone mostly because there is no room to really talk.

    I don't know what else to give you friend,but I wish that what I have said helps you in some way that I have yet to find for myself,a fellow loner as you will.

    Good luck buddy!!!!!(*hug*)
     
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    Haha, thanks (*hug*). I actually went to a Smashing Pumpkins concert last year alone, and that was fun :slight_smile: (tho, I knew people in other states that saw them in their areas as well, so at least I was able to talk to other people about it LOL).

    ---------- Post added 12th Jun 2011 at 10:07 PM ----------

    Quite terrified, tho, I've been thinking about it for a while, so you never know :smilewave.
     
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    I take it you're not in school? I wasn't terribly motivated in terms of school when I was 18-22, but taking classes did help me meet new people. I met my wife in one!
     
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    That's good! Going in the first time is the hardest but it the more often you meet up or go to a group meeting, the easier it will become. Most of the time, no one will ask you about your sexual orientation or will 'force' you to come out if you are not comfortable with it. :slight_smile:
     
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    I feel your pain man. I've never had a girl to do all the things I want to with, whether it be sexual activity or watching a romantic movie...and as such I sometimes feel depressed while masturbating or watching a "chick flick" by myself or whatever it may be I wish I could do with a partner. Dancing at least gives me an outlet for interacting with women, so that's nice. Or I've started turning to my male friend for things, like we watch movies (yes, even "chick flicks" sometimes) and porn together all the time now and even recently tried a bit of sexual activity, which is why I'm here cause I'm a bit confused with myself now :confused:

    I guess my only advice is to try to make new friends and ones you actually want to do something with.

    Heh, if only it was as easily done as said...
     
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    LOL, I would assume that anyone going there would have to be gay, tho.